“Happy people are initiators…
Don’t wait for life to happen. You have to make it happen.”
I used to be the girl in the cubicle, complaining about not having the money to make myself happy. I’m sure I drove my co-workers crazy with my constant desire and rambling about wanting to get out. I’d be reading National Geographic at my desk (because my job was not inspiring to me and I couldn’t bring myself to do it for 8 hours a day) and wishing I could be one of those people who traveled and really saw things. I was – correction am – in thousands of dollars of debt due to student loans and felt as though the world of travel was out of my reach. I couldn’t afford to live in Spain on minimum wages, or volunteer in South America. I couldn’t even afford language classes in my own hometown. A bitterness began to overtake me as day after day, year after year I went back to the same type of job, always knowing there was something more for me, but not feeling as though it was within my grasp. I was waiting for someone to show me the way – for life to bring me something fun and exciting to do.
Then, one day I decided I had had enough. My 20s had been lost to the land of the cubicles and damn it I was going to find some way out of this rut no matter what it took.
And what it took was me moving to Asia, something I never thought I would’ve done before. It was a little scary at first, moving across the world, signing a one year contract, not sure if me and my set ways were going to like it here, but it was the best decision I could’ve made. I am much happier in life since I’ve been here for several reasons: although not out of debt, I no longer use credit cards (except to purchase flights which I then pay off) and am not living paycheck to paycheck; I now have the means to travel more often and have seen 8 new countries since arriving 2 years ago; I broke out of my daily routine, made new friends, found a whole new lifestyle and a career that keeps me on my feet and more active.
None of this happiness would have occurred had I not decided to be an initiator. I realized that many of the people I read about in travel magazines were not simply lucky, they found a way to make it happen and they created their own happiness.
And so did I.
Don’t wait for life to hand you a goodie bag of opportunity and dreams. If you long for something better no matter how big or small, go out and get it. Be willing to step out of your comfort zone if needed. You may need to get creative to make things happen, so think outside the box. No idea is too crazy – trust me! Be an initiator. Be your own reason for happiness.
- My Year In A Cubicle (luvsiesous.com)
- 8 Things I Don’t Miss About Working in an Office (kimwoodbridge.com)
- Happiness (akmaomar.wordpress.com)
- Happiness is A Feeling that You Have to Bless Yourself With (aisjournal.com)